Dating Expert Tells Women How To ‘Win’ in Relationships, Faces Backlash [Video]

A dating coach has highlighted the “biggest mistake” she believes women can make in a relationship, and the video has gone viral on TikTok.

“When you make a man the center of your world, you will become his mother,” warned dating coach Alejandra Maria.

Racking up over 1 million views, Maria—based in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada—shared her advice on what women shouldn’t do in a heterosexual relationship. However, not all users agree.

“There is nothing admirable about being everything to everyone, yet nothing to yourself,” the 26-year-old told Newsweek. “Prioritizing your own needs isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.”

In the March 21 clip shared to @anxiouslyalej, she discourages women from cooking and cleaning for their partners, emphasizing that it doesn’t earn brownie points. Instead, she believes it only “raises a grown man who …